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Why Men Don’t BlahBlahBlah and Women Can’t YaddaYaddaYadda

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If you’ve ever read or heard anything along those lines, I can sum it all up in one succinct word:

BULLSH-T

Anything that polarizes between male and female regarding capabilities, strengths, tendencies and whatever else (excepting literal physical plumbing and body parts):

NONSENSE

It occurred to me, as I was pruning my book collection prior to moving (and tossing out a book that resembled this blogpost’s title), that anything we ever thought we knew or that we were told, even by so-called “experts” and “professionals”, is complete and utter

IGNORANCE

According to a recent study**, males who were primary caregivers of newborn babies showed significant re-wiring of their brains that came to resemble more of a female caregiver’s brain than males who were not primary caregivers.

The human brain’s incredible adaptability means that this can be extrapolated to introduce the idea that any given male and any given female can develop capabilities, strengths, tendencies and whatever else someone might choose as a consequence of exercising freewill and making requisite efforts to practice those things.

When society programs children to believe that boys are better at math and spatial thinking and point to their scans and studies “proving” such, they completely disregard the fact that children ARE programmed by their environment and caregivers (and thus have their brains wired a certain way) and that girls have often been left out of toys and gameplay that lead to developing those strengths (and thus wiring their brains into a self-fulfilling prophecy of non-competence) while boys are given more ample opportunities and encouragement to develop those points.  Later, discriminatorily, a child’s (programmed) experientially-wired brain is used in favor of males and against females and backed up by faulty psuedo-science, as though it were actual truth and not the result of social programming (engineering).

So what does this mean for the future of the human race?

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Post-Event, when the so-called “war” between the sexes has been round-filed and the adversarial polarization of Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energies (which will likely be re-named as those energies are not intrinsic to any given binary gender) is firmly in the past – the future is unimaginably bright and quite unimaginable (though we’ll sure give it a try! 😀 ) because all of the mainstream’s basic “fundamentals” that we’ve been operating off of up to this point were all a product of negative influences – whether directly or indirectly. Once those negative influences are no longer the foundation we build off of, even the sky’s not the limit, any longer.

Break it down to constituent parts and a human is comprised of two parts: Inside and Outside.  We try to stuff as much of our Higher Self’s energetic Soulbody into that teeny-tiny physical meatsuit and treat it as though it’s the sum total of human existence and experience.  Here’s a tip: we’re bigger on the OUTSIDE of the meatsuit than we are on the INSIDE of it!

tardisSorry, Doctor – we’re actually NOT ‘Bigger on the inside!”

Some folks even believe that the meatsuit is ALL there is and completely eschew any thought of the existence of their Soulbodies altogether! (How limiting!) Other folks think that the scraps of Soulbody that are stuffed into the meatsuit (like one does with bell peppers) are the sum total of all there is for us, especially since the meatsuit will eventually be discarded like a used-up candy wrapper.  And some folks who are a bit further along in enlightenment (but not all the away along) are aware that there is more to our soulbody than can be stuffed (like a pepper) into a meatsuit.

Nope.  Nope Nope Nope. And again, NOPE!  It goes even farther than that!

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“We” (or “I”) and all the Inside AND Outside soulbody bits that coherently make up our “self” (Higher or otherwise) are infinite energy that is, itself, only a scrap of the entirety of the Source Soulbody (aka “God”, “Goddess”, “Higher Power”, etc.) that has spread out to more intimately explore the different facets of itself as incarnated (there’s those meatsuit soul-vehicles+ again!) beings.  We ARE Source, I AM Source.

We are, indeed, the universe made manifest, trying to figure itself out. *

Hence, Source calling itself the great “I AM”.  All of us, individually or all put together (including every other form of life that is out there) ARE Source and will someday finish our explorations of Ourselves and will return to Source once again.

Awesome-sauce!

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*We believe that the universe itself is conscious in a way that we can never truly understand. It is engaged in a search for meaning. So it breaks itself apart, investing its own consciousness in every form of life. We are the universe trying to understand itself.”

DELENN, Babylon 5, “Passing Through Gethsemane” (1995)

“We are the universe made manifest, trying to figure itself out. And as we have both learned, sometimes the universe requires a change of perspective.”

DELENN, Babylon 5, “A Distant Star” (1994)

** http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/life/news/dad-s-brain-goes-into-caregiver-mode-with-baby-interaction

http://www.iflscience.com/brain/becoming-father-can-rewire-mans-brain/

+ Actually, considering the fact that all matter is energy anyway, our meatsuits are ALSO bits of that infinite Source energy, too!

The times, they are a’changing!

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I think that one of the most wondrous things about the human race is related to our Free Will.  We are not entirely predictable.  That means that neither the baddies out there, nor other voices purporting to be of the Light that claim that there is inescapable destruction lying ahead for us, can dependably count on humanity passively falling into their narrative and playing their assigned role in that declared destructive “future”, like sheep.

Sometimes it seems like those of the fear p0rn contingent and the “Light” contingent have this narrative that they seem to be inordinately fond of where humanity runs around like a chicken without a head, shrieking in fear, “through the rockets’ red glare, the bombs bursting in air” or disasters that are natural or otherwise and that all will descend into chaos and mass destruction, after which one side or the other will pick up the pieces of what’s left and rebuild over the ashes of mass, non-consensual sacrifice. And somehow that’s counted as a “win” and a “happy ending”, and inevitable.

Meanwhile all of that hooey (excremental thinking) seems to entirely discount the existence of actual feet on the ground Lightworkers, people of goodwill and peace, the Soul of Nature, the Fae, the Souls of the flora and fauna who also have incarnated on this planet at this time to aid us, and of course any extraterrestrials who can be bothered to get off their tushies and lend a hand for Peace and Love, rather than sit there in their high-tech lofty heights, passing the popcorn and enjoying the show, because hey, who cares if people die, they can just re-incarnate after ditching current meatsuits, right?

Pardon me while I regurgitate.

Nope, that narrative that it’s going to be chaos and destruction doesn’t resonate, doesn’t make sense and can be lumped in with those Georgia Guidestone fetishists as pretty idiotic now, considering the progress humanity is making in leaps and bounds to evolve, ascend, raise vibration, whatever you want to call it – we’re awakening and the Source of Love and Light is doing all that may be done to empower this progress.

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So if any ET’s, baddies  or fear p0rn aficionados want to arrogantly stand in the way and block that progress because they think they know better than the Source of Light and Love, then that must be some pretty potent alien kool-aid they’ve been swilling.

Don’t count us out yet!  If faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains, then I think we’re exponentially becoming empowered to switch tracks to a more favorable destiny, regardless of how many ‘doom-sayers’ are looking forward to their predicted entertainment at Gaia’s and humanity’s expense.  Those negative nancys are better off finding their entertainment elsewhere because that particular show’s jumped the shark and been canceled most emphatically. We are now switching to a more positive program already in progress.

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We’re running out of teeth!

Last night, one of my girls put out a newly fallen tooth for collection by our favorite tooth fairy, Agnes.

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Agnes, along with her cohorts in the tooth-collection biz, Bianca, Consuela, Francesca and The Haz-Mat Fairy, has been steadily retrieving my twins’ teeth for several years now. (Except for that one incident when a government agent tried to horn in on the tooth-collection industry, but we don’t talk about that.)

Agnes, in her note to my daughter, remarked a bit sadly that soon there won’t be any teeth for her to collect, but she assured Z that they would always remain friends.

My girls are going to be 9 in July.  I count us as being very, very fortunate that the twins still believe in magical beings like tooth fairies, the Easter Bunny, Santa Clause, etc.  While it’d sure be nice to keep things going for much longer, I’m well aware that we are on borrowed time, belief-wise.  All too soon, one of their classmates will make a concentrated effort to burst the bubble of sweet innocence that my children have enjoyed, and introduce them to the cold, hard light of cynicism and disbelief.

In the meantime, though, my girls will continue to blithely enjoy the brief peeks into a world that is not outside the realm of extreme possibility, where anything can happen and where friendship truly IS magic!

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Rainbows and Sunshine and Dragons, Oh My! :D

It’s been a bit on the gloomy side here lately since Christmas (we were totally ripped off from getting to see the only full moon on Christmas for the next 19 years – thanks to the heavy-duty air pollution we frequently get around here!).

So after a break in the rain we’ve been practically floating in for the past two days, I go outside and see a RAINBOW!!! Woo-Hoo!!  So I whipped out my trusty phone, (noticed that the time was 12:33p when I turned it on to take these) and knocked out a few pics:

Ooo, aaah! Pretty, huh?

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Then I noticed this bull…

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After about a minute, I noticed that the bull had morphed into a dragon!

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(kinda looks like the rainbow is either defining the side of its wings, or trying to lop off its tail :D)

Then I grabbed my laundry and headed off.

So that was yesterday.  Afterwards, I grabbed my handy, dandy “Pocket Guide o Spirit Animals” by Dr. Steven Farmer and looked up what bulls and dragons meant (Looking up spirit animals is sorta, kinda like the Chinese Zodiac you see on placemats in restaurants, but a bit more in-depth.  Instead of one static animal you’re associated with by way of birth year, all kinds of animals can pop up in dreams, nature, symbols, etc):

Among the highlights:

BULL – “…allow yourself to indulge in any creative projects you’ve been considering.  Your life is headed for an upturn cycle, so welcome it and enjoy it.  This is a very prosperous time for you…”

DRAGON – “Do more of the kinds of activities that bring passion into your life…You’re entering into a period of considerable prosperity.  Spend some time regularly in meditation…and you’ll receive some valuable insights and inspiration…”

This is pretty interesting, considering that I recently have been mulling over trying to slog my way through several more years of college to get a 4-year degree (after the 21 years it’s taken me to get my 2-year!) Or seeing what kind of minimum-wage receptionist job I can get, or instead, focusing more on my writing (sci-fi/fantasy) and art (right now I’m into crystal, metal & resin sculptures aka “orgonite”)  My husband is very supportive of being a patron for my art and thinks I should do that, but I was waffling between being “practical” and some mis-placed guilt over doing something I love that didn’t fit conventional definitions of being “productive” and wanting to do what I love.  I couldn’t choose and was feeling very, very clogged up (pretty much like a backed up toilet – I had way too much garbage getting in the way of the flow :D)

The way things are going lately, it seems the universe is steering me down the ‘road less traveled’ and it’s shaping up to be one heckuva ride!

Awesome! 😀

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